March 26, 2009

progress

Barnes women doing what we do best

after spending two of my 6 days at home in dallas arguing with my soon to be mother-in-law about the size of the rehearsal dinner...i was ready for some good wedding vibes to come my way. i feel like i can conquer the wedding world with my mom by my side and we did just that. while at home, we spent 3 days at the beach cabin, found and BOUGHT MY WEDDING DRESS, purchased supplies for the save-the-dates i am making (all for $33!), secured our pastor (my uncle randy) and figured out all the wedding cake and cupcake details with our cake goddess kalie (: 

after these 6 days of dallas progress, i sped up to seattle to see my fiancee for a few hours before taking a red eye to salt lake city, then san antonio and then del rio, texas to visit REM! so much travel but quite worth it to see my big brother. he is flying T9 Texans and kicking major butt here and it's great meeting his friends that are helping each other get through pilot training. it freaks me out that rem is a few flights away from flying an aircraft on HIS OWN. blah, i can't believe that. his friends are so awesome and a blast to be around. 

he is putting me to work tomorrow running errands, making dinner, cleaning the apartment and giving shadow (the dog) a bath. silly me for thinking this was a vacation (:  i also need to squeeze in time to work on the save the dates and homework...JUST KIDDING. i don't think i mentioned it here but i graduated on march 17 and am now relishing no homework, unemployment and endless possibilities for my future. 

more to come on texas domination 2009 - we still have the mustachio bashio, tour of del rio AFB, roller skating party, wake boarding on the reservoir and much more.

March 18, 2009

fingerprints

it's undeniable that God's paving the way for our wedding to happen and for us to start life together. i want to make sure that i document these blessings so josh and i won't forget Christ's goodness through this season of engagement.

1. i went dress shopping a couple of weeks ago and fell in LOVE with the first one i tried on. it was even on sale (my favorite word in the dictionary = SALE)...but still more money than i felt comfortable spending on a dress i'll wear once. i'm going shopping again today with my mom-away-from-home, deb, and i just have a great feeling that i'll find a dress just like the last one...but cheaper! it hasn't happened yet, but i'm writing it down as a blessing because i have a good feeling about today (:

2. i wrote a few days ago about our idea for wedding favors. as josh was working down at the market today, his boss jimmy said that him and his wife lisa wanted to give us the baby jams as a wedding gift! this completely blew me away! their generosity is a huge blessing because that allows us to use that $450 to give to Lydia's House, the charity we have chosen since they cared for my Grandma Baker when she passed away from Alzheimer's in october.

3. my mom isn't just playing mother of the bride in september, she's also my matron of honor! we found her the perfect dress from nordstrom and she ordered it online soon after i got engaged. she loved it and even though it was a little spendy, we figured it was worth it since it was something she'd wear again and again. i was prowling on nordstrom.com the other day for bridesmaid dresses and came across mom's dress on sale for 40% off! whoohoo! since nordy's is THE BOMB, she took the receipt into the store and they gave her a price adjustment, paying mom the $55 difference! if it goes further on sale between now and september, they will continue to do this for her. awesome.

4. when we went and saw oak grove church, we fell in love with it for tons of reasons. it is built in a filbert orchard where my great-grandparents used to pick hazelnuts and is so adorably charming. it's a classic white chapel with a steeple to boot. anywhoo, we didn't know who to contact about reserving the church and my faithful grandma mates went to highschool with the woman who is the "event coordinator" for the 16 pew church and happened to have her name and number hanging around. i spoke with her and the church was available for our weekend, fits the perfect amount of people for our little ceremony AND costs pennies.

5. as i was writing this very post, josh called me and said it just crossed his mind to call student financial services to make sure his finances were all settled for next quarter. he was just awarded a service scholarship for over $4500 (blessing!) and wanted to make sure it had been credited to his account. the SFS rep informed him that it had come through, and there had been an accounting mistake fall quarter so he will be getting a $3000 refund for spring quarter! this is so awesome for josh because he takes such hard classes, he only is able to work on saturdays. this money will give him money to live and pay bills during spring and will also give us more to sock away for the wedding and married life!

as God continues to create opportunities and have His hand and fingerprints in this process, i will keep writing these posts...as much for my benefit as anything else. i so easily forget that He is ever near, ever dear and ever mine. it makes me wonder just how many "little blessings" i have overlooked and failed to be thankful for simply because i don't take the time to reflect in gratitude for His work.

March 15, 2009

ode to erica

this goes out to my fellow cereal killer carlos...an ode to her. 3 more to come for the other members of TGS.

ode to erica
up the stairs in penthouse one
lives a girl from the state of sun
eleven foot closet in the wall
packed with treasure from northgate mall
high school musically obsessed
zefron maniac like all the rest

don't call her "carl" or even "pess"
those 2 names make her highly distressed
office hours are from two to four
in the denim room with 80s decor
stop on by williams avenue west 
to see carlos saarloos our resident pest





March 11, 2009

giving back

mr. frankland and i were mulling over what we should do for "favors" for our wedding guests, most of which are coming from out of town. we don't want to give them something useless (bookmark) and we don't want them to be overly lavish (prada bag) but something just rich with meaning. that's kind of the vibe we want the whole day to have...just super intimate, carefree, worshipful and meaningful. we settled on something that i think is so, so perfect. josh and i (especially josh) have both worked for jim johnson down at pike place market for a couple of years. jimmy has this awesome berry farm in olympia and makes scrumtrulescent jams. he's going to pour us mini jam jars filled with...marionberry jam! it represents where our collective story began (seattle) and also my roots in the willamette valley where the marionberry was born. along with that, we have decided to be thrifty with our wedding budget and donate the remainder of our money to lydia's house, an alzheimer's care facility in albany, oregon that cared for my grandma for several years and during her passing last october. we'll be attaching a tag to the jam stating the rest of the gift and will be honoring grandma baker at the wedding. 

March 10, 2009

waiting for that final bell


less than one week and i'm kissing college goodbye and joining the world of the unemployed. booya. as i sit here "studying" for a midterm on thursday...i ran across my friend katie klug's latest blog entry (check her out at kluginator.blogspot.com). anywhoo, her entry was an "about me" little post which i thought was super rad, so i'm jacking it from her. i've avoided writing that "25 random things" note on facebook because i don't think i'm that cool to generate interest in the faux randomness of my life. this is WAY cooler because it shares about me in a photographic hipster sort of way. basically i answered these 12 questions below (i'll include my answers to help you get the pics) by putting each answer into the search box on Flickr and picking one picture from the first page only. then i put it into a photo mosaic and here's what came out. rad. 

he Questions:

1. What is your first name? - KT
2. What is your favorite food? - chicken
3. What high school did you go to? - dallas high school
4. What is your favorite color? - white
5. Who is your celebrity crush? - chris brown
6. Favorite drink? - margarita
7. Dream vacation? - ireland
8. Favorite dessert? - chocolate
9. What you want to be when you grow up? - mother
10. What do you love most in life? - freedom
11. One Word to describe you. - spark
12. Your blog title - northwest is best


my pics are put in order of my answers top to bottom, left to right






March 6, 2009

tech savvy engagement

when i told my mom i spent 3 hours working on me and josh's wedding website, all i got was, "whaaaaaat???" seriously, it's crazy to me that now you can blog about your wedding, post pics on facebook, have a wedding website and book all your wedding vendors without ever having to meet them! LOVE it. it's super convenient for being in school but, on the flip side, very anti-community and impersonal. our wedding website is done, so feel free to pay a visit...

http://www.theknot.com/ourwedding/KTBarnes&JoshFrankland

March 4, 2009

the temper trap

Smashing into the music scene in 2006, is Melbourne's latest and greatest rising star The Temper Trap. according to the BBC's Sound of 2009 (which predicts the hottest emerging bands for the year) they are one of the 15 best bands on the up and up along with the likes of Lady GaGa, Empire of the Sun and more. Last year's number one prediction was Adele and she's the shit now so BBC knows what they're talking about. The last great band to come out of the Land Down Under was Wolfmother so it's about time we get some fresh Aussie meat. Check out this video of their latest single "Sweet Disposition". 


March 2, 2009

elope

ugh. just slogged through 106...that's right, 106 pages on etsy.com for a custom made wedding dress or at least ideas for one. my eye balls feel like a wedding witch just poured sand in them. why is planning a wedding the effing best thing ever and the most frustrating? 

i understand why people elope (:

March 1, 2009

a thousand times i've failed
still your mercy remains
and should i stumble again
still i'm caught in your grace

everlasting, your light will shine when all else fades
never ending, your glory goes beyond all fame
my heart and my soul, lord i give you control
consume me from the inside out lord
let justice and praise become my embrace
to love you from the inside out
and the cry of my heart is to bring you praise
from the inside out lord, my soul cries out


these are some of the lyrics to hillsong's "from the inside out". these words just get me. i don't know what it is, but the mere thought that each time i fail, He meets me with more mercy, more forgiveness and endless grace is something is struggle to wrap my mind around. that is inexplicably incredible to me. not only that, but this song really does represent the cry of my heart right now. i'm scared about graduating in 2 weeks and finding a job and planning a wedding but there is no room for fear when i give Him control of all of me. all that aside, this is a deeply exciting season of my life. it is full of hope, purpose and the unknown and it's wonderful to fall into the future with Him in control. 

wedding bells are ringing

4 word question. 3 letter answer. 2 kids in love. living to serve 1 God.

we are getting married 9.19.09 (big sigh). you won't want to miss it.here's the story in video form