grad?

here is my dilemma. i've been graduated for 49 days now and i just don't know if i want to spend ALL that time on a perfectly beautiful (fingers crossed) saturday to get an empty leather portfolio. my diploma is, i hope, still on my mom's fridge. i think it would be SO much more fun to have my family come up and play for a couple of days. i borrowed a cap and gown in case i do the thing but...no announcements. yeesh. i guess i have to decide this SOON.